What if lesbians wanted your DH's sperm?
Last night when DH got home he informed me that this lesbian couple (customers of his) want his sperm. My immediate response was HELL NO! He already has 2 kids we wish weren't his. I don't give a damn about how much they will pay him. DH told them no but they wanna know how I feel about it and are going back up to his job tomorrow to know what I think. Eff that! They better take their butts to the sperm bank!
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The only kids he wished he
The only kids he wished he had are our 3. He admits he screwed up with BM and the Turkey bastered child was more BM² taking advantage of his sleeping state thinking he would stay if she got pregnant pfft didn't work!
I care about my oldest SS he
I care about my oldest SS he is not a brat but that Turkey bastered child (the 2 times we have seen him) acts worst than my 3 years old
They told him he wouldn't
They told him he wouldn't have to be involved with the kid but I DON'T GIVE A F*CK! I already have to deal with the fact DH has 2 kids with 2 irresponsible dumb money whores!
They both have done things
They both have done things but CPS only investigates innocent people not sh*tty moms
We have no addresses for them
We have no addresses for them and don't see either child because BM left the state 2 years ago against the court order and BM² has a wishy washy yo-yo complex with SS.
Yeah, but years down the road
Yeah, but years down the road when they can't work it out and the non-bio doesn't want to pay CS . . . well, you know where this is going.
Yup I thought of that too and
Yup I thought of that too and had to stop myself from thinking about it because if DH had a 3rd child to pay child support for I'd leave
They think our kids are cute
They think our kids are cute
Just the thought of DH having
Just the thought of DH having another kid with someone else whether or not he is involved makes me sick
I think I'd be there when
I think I'd be there when they showed up and let the look on my face do the talking for me.
I actually considered that
I actually considered that but with me being 7 months pregnant I may try and tear their eyes out
If he donates his sperm he
If he donates his sperm he can also donate all of his money for the next 18 years. DNA will force him to pay if they choose to go after it.
He won't do it he doesn't
He won't do it he doesn't want anyone carrying his babies except me HIS WIFE!
I don't know them and they
I don't know them and they told DH they would love to meet me. Ha! We are not a stupid couple. It's best if they never meet me cuz I'll blow up and it won't be pretty at all. I'm just glad DH knew from the beginning to say no.
Yea, I'm way on board with
Yea, I'm way on board with StepAside here. I wouldn't be seeing this as a compliment, personally. Particularly as they have a business relationship with your husband, it's incredibly inappropriate of them to ask. Also agree that neither of you owes any sort of explanation, a simple No is enough, but I guess if he wants, "My wife and I are just not comfortable with that" could get thrown in. How ridiculous.
I totally agreed it's
I totally agreed it's inappropriate and honestly it disgusts me that they would pull that crap. DH is an amazing man but I had to deal with some dumb b*tch telling people she had his baby and tried to fake a pregnancy. She found him online and saw us in a pic together and still tried to get with DH but he shut her down quickly by saying he was happily married and to eff off!
They were never married to DH
They were never married to DH so I guess so but their names aren't in the white pages they live with people.
He knows how I feel about him
He knows how I feel about him having 2 other kids that aren't mine and if he could go back in time he wouldn't have made the mistakes he made. I am very proud of him and have seen lots of growth from age 20 when OSS was born to now age 30.
I can't speak for DH but I
I can't speak for DH but I don't hate them I wish they would quit begging for money. Hell they get child support.
I'd have to find the mom and
I'd have to find the mom and beat her a** then make her terminate her rights and in TX it's irreversible.
I would contact these ladies
I would contact these ladies and tell them you can't help them with their 'request',
and would appreciate them leaving your husband alone.
Boundaries people!
We will see today if they
We will see today if they bother him. I hope they drop it.