A fellow member of this site has informed me her FDH commited suicide!

:jawdrop: We just became friends last week and started talking via yahoo messenger. I am both deeply saddened and speechless. I won't reveal who it is because I don't think it's my place to say who it is and she hasn't blogged about it on here yet. She said her FDH gave SS back to BM then committed suicide. :jawdrop:

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I've said a prayer. I just

I've said a prayer. I just can't even imagine.

I have a friend who I talk

I have a friend who I talk to everyday on yahoo whose DH died passed away last year. He had one too many seizures.:(

I am sorry for all the

I am sorry for all the losses. My prayers are with all my step talkers and their families.

My prayers go out to our

My prayers go out to our fellow steptalker. How tragic!!! Saddened to hear this news!

So sad...I'm very sorry for

So sad...I'm very sorry for all those who have lost loved ones to suicide - I can't imagine...

My heart and hugs go out to

My heart and hugs go out to her I cannot imagine what she must be going through right now.

I am so sorry to hear this. I

I am so sorry to hear this. I lost my brother to suicide. It is a horrific way to lose someone you love. It took me a long time to sort through the guilt and the "what ifs" and here is the conclusion: if the love he had for his child couldn't change his mind, nothing could. Many prayers and much love.

oh my gosh... this hit me

oh my gosh... this hit me like a ton of bricks. I am so sorry for this women and I can't imagine what she is going through!!!

This is truly sad news. I'm

This is truly sad news. I'm so sorry for her loss.

How horrible...I can't

How horrible...I can't imagine how SHE feels. When it's kids who commit suicide, I feel for them greatly...I believe they don't understand all the hurt and pain they cause those around them yet...when it's an adult, sorry, I feel for them but at the same time feel they are absolutely selfish to put those around them through this...very sad either way.

I am sending my prayers to

I am sending my prayers to the Steptalker. I hope she is coping well and knows the suicide was not about her, her actions, words, or feelings. It is about the husband and his lack of coping mechanisms.
My gosh, what a selfish way for the husband to see his way out of his situation.
My heart goes out to her.

This is horrible! It goes to

This is horrible! It goes to show all of us that someone has to give, there has to be more tolerance & forgiveness. This could happen in any of our families. If the BM did this, the kids are a mess for life, if your DH killed themself you & the kids are a mess for life.

You never know when someone just can't take anymore. As a SM I will admit that I hate the fact the my H was married before, had kids and this life before me. As much as I have tried very hard to be nice to BM I'm sure deep down I didn't really wish BM the best. I'm sure I kind of wanted her to fall on her face now & then....I haven't been perfect and this is a huge wakeup call.

I don't know who this was,

I don't know who this was, this is a PRIME EXAMPLE OF WHY THE FAMILY COURT SYSTEM NEEDS TO GROW SOME BALLS AND STAND UP TO BM's, who hurt anyone in their path.

I don't know all the particulars in this case, but there is documented cases in Wisconsin where a Father comitted suicide just after being ordered to pay more child support on a little part time job he had on the side which he was using to try and keep his head above water.

C'mom Court Systems it isn't about money it's about the kids and parents who need to be involved in their lives.