Hi everyone. I was looking and my last blog was March 2010. In the past 1.5 years, the skids suddenly came to live with us and no BM visitation, then supervised, I was on meds b/c the stress was causing blurred vision, even tho BM wouldn't get full custody back she does get them every weekend and for extended time this past month. All she had to do was get a job and take the free housing they were offering...but she is holding out still for that SSI check b/c she is so sick...in her head that is.

I have been back and reading blogs for a few weeks. Before I couldn't even come to this site b/c it just broke me down more. I see the skids and BM in every single blog....from the disrespectful brats to the BM that needs to txt or call BF every effing day to the skids and BM joining forces in their lies.

I would like to tell you all that I was able to take my life back somewhat, I went from being the parent 90% of the time to 10%, and only if I want to. I stood up and gave an ultimatum to BF...you want custody, you raise them or get the fuck out of my house. I'm very lucky to be able to do that, I know.

The skids are ss11 (acts 6), and sd10 (cusses like a sailor). I know, but wonder if BF does, that with BM getting more visit time that she will allow the skids to do what they want and they will be as uncontrollable as ss17, who is currently in juvenile detention center and may remain for the next 5 years, or go to big boy jail.

I will be blogging more in hopes I can help some of you....and help heal myself of the year from hell.....we literally couldn't go anywhere without a skid attached to us b/c BFs family, while a good family, don't really give a shit about anyone but theirselves.

I am glad that I stuck it out, don't know how I did, but glad b/c of BF, not the skids. I'm sorry but I don't see sunshine and lollipops with them, the damage has already been done.

Looking forward to getting to know the ones of you that are new and hopefully find out what happened to some of the 'older' members.