I finally faced my fears ( and my disgust of confrontations). SD25 dropped off grand-daughter early yesterday before she went to work- and I avoided her until she left 2 hours later. I stayed in my room and did some much needed cleaning and organizing. I finally went downstairs and grand-daughter (who Loves me) wouldn't let me out of her sight all night.She would scream and cry if I went into another room- and just clung to me the whole time. SD25 came to pick her up around 8pm and I was sitting in the living room with grand-dtr. She had to fake smile at me- and barely said Hi.

3 Adult SKIDS (SD25, SD23, and SD21). We were getting along pretty good over the last year until my recent falling out with SD23 who FINALLY moved out of our house 3 weeks ago. Now SD25 has decided to join sides with her sister and "not want anything to do with me". She has declared she is not coming over for any holiday- and informed her dad that she is going to Minnesota with BM and her sisters for Xmas to visit BM's Family. She had the audacity to tell her dad He should come with THEM!!! I have been with my BF for almost 5 years- and he's been divorced for 3 years.

My SD23 has been given a deadline of November 1st to move out. Her dad finally talked to her about the chaos in the home since she's lived with us and told her it has to end. I am not sure I can survive another MONTH!!
Instead of trying to live in "peace and harmony" for the next few weeks- the tension and stress seems to be just as bad if not worse than before. My BF is already aware that I have looked at houses and I have the ability to move out if that is going to save my sanity. But He has begged me to stay- says he just needs to help her find a place in the next few weeks.