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All Talk, No Action?

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Ok GG thinks and will ALWAYS think that he is justified to treat me ANY way he wants if I so much as half glower at his precious crotch droppings.

Established.

So on Sunday after getting into it again and trying to get it through his THICK SKULL that the REASON i talk to other women is because HE doesn't understand. He still doesn't understand and has made it clear that he wants me to go back to doormat days, aka 100% responsibility and 0% authority.

This little episode of him finding out that I vent to "strangers on the internet" has made him resolve to reestablish a "relationship" with his "angels."

He got a note from Brainiac's (SS14) counselor saying that Brainiac would like to "re-establish a relationship with him" Of course this means re-establish a guilty daddy, disneyland dad, BFF relationship and spy for the Behemoth.

He SAYS he is going to counseling. . .I will have to see that to believe it.

I warned him of that he is considered by all to be guilty daddy/disneydad and that HE set this precedent in the very beginning. He admitted that the counselor he went to early on told him NOT to do that!! (and of course he continued on doing it DESPITE the counselor's advice. . . and mine)

He reminded ME that I do NOT know it all, am NOT an expert in child psychology and am not the perfect parent, blah blah when I began to predict what some of the things that happen as his "angels" get older and as they enter their mid teen years.

He was all talk on Sunday. . .oh when they come back there are going to be RULES and by gum, they are going to need to get Bs in school before particpating in sports and on and on.

He also relapsed into calling the room that Awesomeson is in right now as "Prince Hygiene's room." :sick:

Yeah how is he going to establish all these 'rules' when he turns into jello the second they bat their long blonde eyelashes at him? And of course to establish rules means that he'd have to confront the Behemoth and attempt to co-parent with her. Yeah, like THAT is happening.

What a RUSE!

My exit plan is still on track as usual, The house must be finished and he even suggested that if "things don't work out" we can sell and "split the proceeds" ummm yeah, it won't be a 50/50 split rest assured.

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Work is slow for him but materials to work with are even slower. Last of the cabinets are coming in this week. Then the outside has to be done:

1. redo of septic (toilets don't flush when it rains hard)

2. redo of driveway (live on a "wetland" so driveway ices up and floods out making it impossible to get out of)

3. siding

4. roofing

Pretty much those are the major things left