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stbxDh roping another unsuspecting victim

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Submitted by Asher10 on Mon, 05/02/2011 - 1:23pm

he is dating someone exclusively and we aren't even divorced.he decided he would be "a mature adult"and tell me all about this woman as though I care and like it's something i need to know.What is it with men who cannot wait until their first marriage is over before jumping into another relationship?Now before the bashing brigade jumps on me I realize some divorces take years before they're final but keep in mind for my situation we haven't even been apart for sixth months yet.If someone cannot wait til the divorce papers are signed at LEAST wait a year or 6months at the minimum.And what is the point in telling me about this person?!
I hate men.I think I will just keep one or two on the side for when I get bored or lonely.When I feel better,then they must leave.

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Submitted by Asher10 on Mon, 05/02/2011 - 1:26pm

yeah i'll pine for him in his dreams.when I start feeling depressed about him I just think of Sd's darling little arseface along with BM and stbxMIL,that frown turns upside down real quick.

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Submitted by alwaysanxious on Mon, 05/02/2011 - 1:28pm

He only told you for a reaction. Why in the world would you want to know.

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Submitted by Asher10 on Mon, 05/02/2011 - 1:33pm

the poor thing.i don't even know her and i feel such a deep sense of pity toward her.she has no clue.but then I have to consider a few things.1.what kind of woman would date a man who doesn't even have a legal separation filed with the court yet and barely moved out of his wife's house a few months ago? 2.does she even know he's still married or is he lying to her?
while i'd love the opportunity to meet her and warn her,I know it will be just like some women on ST.She'll hear what i'm saying but she'll never think it will happen to her.she'll think she is the missing link to fix the sd/bm/mil/dh problem.

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Submitted by Asher10 on Mon, 05/02/2011 - 1:41pm

i just forwarded this to a girlfriend of mine and she called me laughing her ass off over your prediction for the future and how she can't wait to see if it's as accurate as she thinks it is Biggrin

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Mon, 05/02/2011 - 2:52pm

Agreed! Bet he has played the oh, poor, pitiful, me card....I just try to be a good father, Asher hated my daughter, blah blah blah. Bet new woman (IF there is one) is doing what alot of us have been caught in the past doing... swooping in to "take care of" him and SD.

She'll be a member here by the end of the year, if she lasts that long...

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Mon, 05/02/2011 - 3:50pm

Asher, I am so glad you are divorcing this guy. I agree with everyone else- this will not look good in divorce court.

I agree with Daizy- this woman will find her way here in due time.