So I was talking to my SO the other day after an argument over Nasty leaving comments on his facebook pictures…he leaves them there while I think they should be deleted. Her comments ALWAYS say “thank u for posting these. looks like they had a grate time!”. Since he insists on leaving them there, I want to respond with a childish “They weren’t posted for your benefit!” but alas…he thinks me commenting back or him deleting her comments would start her on a tangent.

At one point, he said “I don’t understand why you have an issue…if you had kids with your ex, I could understand why he would post on pics of any kids you had together…”, to which I said “our kids are THE DOGS…XH has commented on pics I posted & I deleted his comments telling him privately that I didn’t appreciate him posting on my pics or wall but that he was more than welcome to enjoy the photo’s if he so choses”…of course, it’s different because we are talking about kids versus dogs…but here’s the kicker…HIS MOTHER agrees with ME! We happened to be at her house when SO brought it up…he does this often in an attempt to get her on HIS side…it simply backfired }:)

MIL is notorious for always telling me to “do what’s best for the children”…for the most part, I do…however, seeing Nasty’s face on MY fiancés wall is down-right offensive…especially since she has next to no involvement with her own children. To have MIL agree with me was a HUGE moment for me!

After many go-rounds, he finally admitted that he tries to “keep her happy” because he is AFRAID of her suing for custody. Anytime we argue about him placating her, no matter what the topic is, this is where it ends up…he is scared of her taking the Skids.

Our end convo ended like this-
Me: Ok…do you actually think she’d leave Florida & move to Texas?
Him: Why would she do that??
Me: Because YOU have custody of them & Texas is their residence…she can’t sue from the Florida family courts…she’d have to come here.
Him: She’d do it…just to screw with me, just to hurt me, I know her!
Me: Ok…so if you delete comments, she is going to up & leave her home in Florida, move to Houston & sue for custody…when her parents, who she dumped her other child on are in Germany…& her fiancé hates kids…
Him: It might happen…
Me: Ok…so basically, you’re going to NOT call her on anything for the next 11 years because she MIGHT move to Texas & sue for custody…is that about right?
Him: I don’t know!
Me: Ok…if you won’t do the smallest thing to piss Nasty off for the next 11 years, I expect the same courtesy…can you just say “Okay” anytime you don’t like something or you don’t agree with me? Fair is fair!
Him: That would be stupid!
Me: So ya see my point then…

UGH! I know I’m being childish over her comments on his pics, but I really can’t help it! What can I say or do to make him see how stupid his being afraid is? There's no way in hell that woman would even JOKE about having her own children full time...hell, she can hardly manage 4 days a year!