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What kind of custody does your bf/fdh/dh have of his kids?

Anon2009's picture

Submitted by Anon2009 on Mon, 05/13/2013 - 6:03pm

Mine has sole legal and most physical. Bm has visitation rights (that she sadly never exercises).

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Starla's picture

Submitted by Starla on Mon, 05/13/2013 - 7:01pm

My DH has full joint custody. He does not exercise them due to behavioral issues with the SD and the SS being of legal age.

sonja's picture

Submitted by sonja on Mon, 05/13/2013 - 7:20pm

Who knows what that physical/legal mumbo jumbo even means. BM will do as she pleases in the health/education/spiritual etc areas.. DH is supposed to get an evening or 2 during the week and the every-other-weekend, rotating holidays etc.. Is also supposed to get extended summer and winter holiday time but he has never used that time since day one.

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Submitted by imjustthemaid on Mon, 05/13/2013 - 7:41pm

DH has sole physical custody but I think I read in the papers they share legal custody or something. BM has no visitation rights. Lucky me!

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Submitted by 12yrstepmonster on Mon, 05/13/2013 - 8:18pm

Dh is a noncustodial- he is entitled to EOWE, one evening a week, 1/2 the summer, extended winter vacation, rotating holiday.

A year ago January SS told DD how much he hated me....DH called him down on it, SS has not been back since. Dh therefore sees SS one night a week at his moms. And of course any gift giving occassion.

SD is now 21. She made it very clear she couldn't wait until she turned 18 because she would not be coming over anymore.

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Submitted by MotherTrucker on Tue, 05/14/2013 - 7:35am

50/50 no CO no CS. Bullshit because BM threatens to keep SD all the time and there isn't a damn thing DH can do without going to court.

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Submitted by chocolatelover on Tue, 05/14/2013 - 8:45am

50/50 no CO no CS. That will be changing soon, BM has been bringing her abusive boyfriend (also father of the baby she's pregnant with) around SS, SO isn't happy at all.

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Tue, 05/14/2013 - 10:18am

Full everything. BM is supposed to get them every weekend. But usually calls to come get them after 1 day.

Both SS' in juvie at the moment. SD doesn't drink the kool aid, so she doesn't spend much time with the bitch at all.

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Submitted by GhostWhoCooksDinner on Tue, 05/14/2013 - 11:04am

DH and BM have 50/50 physical and legal, two weeks on/two weeks off. It's too damn long of a stretch for everyone involved, but it's always been that way and neither of them wants to change it. Oh well. I do enjoy the hell out of my two weeks off!

I have full physical custody of BS16 and joint legal with his BF, but BF really isn't all that involved. BS usually spends one day a week with him, but that's it.