I don't know about you, but one of my New Years resolutions is to try to make my life more peaceful.

If this is one of your resolutions, or you simply strive to find more peace in your life overall, you should check out Our Family Wizard and all of the links on their website. It's a software designed to help minimize the conflict and tension between exes who share kids.

It costs money, but saves sanity. It helps reduce the role of a nutty BM in one's life, or a crazy bio-dad. It helps to keep the focus more on the kids and less on the multitude of adult issues. It also has books for kids on divorce, sections for attorneys, kids, third parties, stepparents, etc. There are many useful links on this site for folks to check out. Please do. So many people take it upon themselves to try to communicate with BM. So many parents are focused on the conflict with the other parent. There are other tools out there to help reduce the drama. This is a huge one.

http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/ofw/