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Grown up step daughter.. Red flag

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Submitted by Anniemorris on Thu, 12/09/2021 - 5:16am

Hi guys  just to fill you in.... We usto live 5 mins away from sd and she never bothered at all and was always busy with her bf etc unless she wanted something.

She was offered when we moved to move in with us, she said no and made it quite clear that she couldn't live under anyone elses roof because she didn't wNt to abide by rules.

She currently lives with my bro in law because of how difficult she was and wouldn't listen to rules etc and has lived away from us since she was 18. She is now 23.

No one to talk to and dont want regrets.

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Submitted by Anniemorris on Mon, 06/08/2020 - 3:24am

I live with my dp and my own dd who is 12. It is my dp house and is 2 bedroom only. 

Step daughter 21 moved out 8 months ago to live with her grandfather, and slso because she was being reluctant to fund proper work, and how messy she was and lazy was just causing big arguments between her and my dp. 

In this time shes moved in with a boyfriend and has had to go on the sick with her current job she says its her diabetes and no shes never been any goid with it.... Everyone else is at fault not her.

Time to go home

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Submitted by Anniemorris on Mon, 04/27/2020 - 6:20am

Before any one starts i know its lock down. But this was excpsinal cercumstansis. 

My partners dad passed away 4 weeks ago. My sd 17 lives with mum over the other side of Wales. 

My partner told her she needed to come up to see her bamp before he passed, she didn't. She nagged then to come up days after. 

My partner drove there and got her. We were told the funeral would be 3 weeks away yet due to the situation we are all in. 

He told sd to go home then come back the week of the funeral for 2 weeks..... She wouldn't go. 

May be baby!

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Submitted by Anniemorris on Sun, 10/06/2019 - 9:00am

Hi all, in a dilemer and not sure what to do. 

But of background for you, I have a daughter 11 and we live with my partner and his 21 year old daughter. 

The 21 year old is type 1 diabetic and has a bad attitude towards it and general life, she is extremely messy and actually quite pigish and is very attention seeking and selfish. She's constantly cause anguish for her dad, and she usto for me too except now I have detached myself from her. Sounds nasty but for my mental health and the fact I need to look after my daughter and my partner I have had too. 

Arrrrrrrrrr

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Submitted by Anniemorris on Fri, 05/10/2019 - 9:47am

Is it just me, or do other people find that theyer lazy ass pathetic disgusting 20 year old step daughters drive them mad!!!!!!!!.

 

Looks like we are back to square one now. After countless attempts to get her to see that if her room is actually tidy and believe me people a pig sty was cleaner than her room, it's started to creep in again. 

The constant laying in bed all day, making mess when getting food, not clearing it up. Will walk past the dishwasher and nit even empty it to put her dirty things in. Will jot lift a finger to help around the house.