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And so it begins...BM busting the boundary loud and clear
BM just called our home phone at 11pm to talk to YSD. I'm fuming so walked away into my room to calm down and keep myself from saying nasty shit in front of the kids.
This is an outright reaction to the email and she's basically giving us a big ol FU by calling the house this late. She never even calls the home phone which is actually my business line. I'm pissed.
Talk to me ladies. What do we do?
Holy Sh&T- FDH Just Sent an Email to BM Outlining the New Boundaries
I guess he realized I was dead serious.He just sent her an email and BCC'd me.
FDH Almost Gave Our Therapist an Aneurism Last Night
FDH and I met up at therapy last night. We sat down and the counselor asked how everything is going and I launched straight into it. I said “We are having MAJOR issues right now with FDH understanding and implementing proper boundaries with BM and I need to understand why he’s so resistant to end his emotional attachment to her”. The counselor’s eyes widened and she says “FDH! What the hell? STILL??? I thought we covered this and you were going to change.”
The session escalated very quickly.
Flipped Out Last Night-- Told FDH to Pick a Woman
Well, I completely flipped last night. We were watching the new Louis CK comedy special and he went into these jokes about divorce-- basically celebrating how awesome it is to get divorced and sever ties. FDH was laughing and laughing and I just flipped.
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Rant- FDH is a bonehead who clearly doesn't get this business of bounadries with BM
I had a few great days with FDH. Hard days because we were moving but no drama because BM and skids weren’t bothering us. That all started to change last night. I swear, he’s such a bone head and just isn’t getting this sometimes.
FDH No Longer BM's Personal Technical Specialist
FDH proudly told me of his progress last night.
Apparently, when he was dropping off the kids at BM's after dinner last night, she was a little surprised to see him leaving so quickly. The following conversation took place:
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Update: Convo with FDH Regarding My Email
Well, I need a lot more time to process what just went down, I'm exhausted and I need to pack.So I can't give you the full story yet but since you lovely ladies have been SO kind to help me many times and were my full-on advisors and editors today, I thought you might want/deserve a little follow-up. Highlights as follows:
- FDH called on his way to pick up his kids.
- It went from pleasant to me screaming at him a few times due to his idiotic remarks that tell me he is just not getting it fully.
- I hung up on him twice (not mature, I know. But I lost it)
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Draft letter to FDH related to birthdays, boundaries, etc
I am taking a lot of your advice. What do you think?
FDH,
We need to talk about this birthday situation. I woke up this morning and could not fall back to sleep because I am so upset about this. I am sick to my stomach.
Birthday Dread-- Boundary issues with BM/FDH rear their ugly head again
My birthday is coming up in a few weeks and YSD’s birthday is 4 days later. A couple of days ago, FDH and I had an email exchange about him wanting to go to his boss’ party the weekend after next. I told him “We will have just moved and I want to get the new house unpacked. If you want to go, I understand because it’s your boss. But I can’t go because I want the house in really good shape. The following weekend I want to have our friends over to celebrate my birthday and want the house nice.
Rant- Another SD is sliding down the bad behavior slope
It just keeps on....
Today, MSD, the "easy one" that I get along great with received 2 days ISS for a series of things she did at school, including calling the school secretary a bitch. Nice. She missed school Monday because she was too tired (we told her to go to bed but apparently she didn't go to sleep so BM kept her home the next day) BM sent FDH a long email saying "OMG, they are all out of control!!"