I can't take anymore, I have to write a fanasty email or I will explode. A little background, (some of you may know some of it) I have three SDs 19, 17 and 14, who are exposed to a lot of PAS. SD19 is "special needs" (BP, BPD, FASD, etc) and has a 2 year old child. She was living with us but when she qualified for income assistance and started paying us rent and food after three months, mommy dearest caught the scent of money in the air and with oodles of promises manipulated her into moving back in with her (last time it lasted two weeks). Anyways, we are paperanian breeders and we gave one puppy to SD19 as a gift which of course went with her to her mom's. Yesterday, early morning, a car drives in my yard and the dogs start to bark, as I am going downstairs to see what the commotion was about, my front door opens, PEW's arm comes through, plops a drooling, foaming at the mouth scared puppy inside my house. She quickly retreated to her car just in time for me to see her drive off. This is a woman who has threatened me and my children with physical harm, called CPS, etc. You guys know the score. This is the email I really really really want to send.

Dear PEW

How dare you enter upon our property and open my door without announcement or calling first. I will be contacting the police and arranging for trespassing charges and break and enter. I will further ask for a restraining order to keep you away. I refuse to have your skanky, dirty, disgusting body on my property.

If you are having problems with the arrangements YOU made with YOUR daughter, speak to her. YOU do NOT come onto our property unannounced and drop off a dog that is foaming at the mouth! The fight you had with YOUR daughter does not have anything to do with us. She is an adult and so should you be. Taking your aggressions out on a dog may make sense to you but to me it strikes me as animal cruetly and I am further considering contacting the SPCA about your actions against the poor puppy.

You are a rotten excuse of a mother, you alienate them from their father, leave their stepfather for a woman and abandoned your children with your ex. Nice! Now they are running wild, skipping school, breaking the law, drinking and having sex. SD17 is shacked up with her boyfriend at his mother's house and he has a child. WOW, SD17 is a stepmom just like me, hope she has as much fun as I had. You did not even inform DH of this despite being required to by Court Order. SD14 has missed 19 days of school since March. Same trend as last year when she missed the equivalent of 3 months of school.

GET OFF YOUR LAZY A$$ and start parenting the disasters you created and STAY OFF MY PROPERTY.

I've had enough of you and if DH will not do anything about, I will. The girls do not like me anyways so why should I care if I am the bad guy.

Be prepared for a call from the police, school and a visit from the SPCA. I am also considering a call to CPS. Fighting in front of a two year old and snatching his puppy away and dumping it on us is abusive. If things are they way they have always been, we know SGS is not getting any attention, has to scream and fight to get a diaper change, food, drink. He can be hurt and crying and NO ONE will even so much as look at or comfort him. Can you say NEGLECT? At least when he was here, he was watched by others in the house.

I would tell you to go f#@$ yourself, but something tells me you already are.

May you rot in hell.

Sincerely
Your EH's "Hole" (as you've been known to call me)

Ahhhh, that's better. Thanks for letting me vent.