My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He had been separated for 1.3 years when we met. He and his Ex have two children - boy 10, girl 13. When he and I met, she had a boyfriend that she had been with for nine months. His children and I hit it off pretty well and have gotten along. Last year, my bf learned that her bf was moving in with her and the kids. He objected to this and within a week, she told my bf that her bf was getting his own place. This was right before Xmas. He and I took the kids and went to visit his family some 6 hrs from here.