I'm sorry that have kept you guys waiting. It certainly wasn't my intention. But, it only got slightly juicier as the evening progressed and we picked the skids up from school and what not. So...for that I am thankful that I don't have to write 3 blogs!! Haha.

Okay. so I left off with me listening to the entire hearing at my friends house this morning on my phone.

Things DH got wrong.
1.She has to pay us child support. It actually states that they will figure child support using the states recommended worksheet.
2.Judge never mentions that she can never file another petition to amend.

Everything else is true. Now, remember when I blogged yesterday I was under the impression that she would have to pay child support. I am beyond livid that we have to pay her. This bitch will see her children 6 days a freaking month and for the sake of round numbers, she will be getting nearly 200$/month from us?! HELL NO.

Yes, the children's best interest is still in our hearts. Yes, I'm thankful we "won". Blah blah blah insert obligatory I love the kids and just want them to be normal comment here.

Anyway, so We get a call from DH's lawyer this afternoon. He has spoken to the Judge. Judge has overruled his original decision of the sentencing of 10 days in jail based on DHs attys request. Only kicker is, BM doesn't have to go either. They got "hit" for violating the same thing so if he overrules DH's sentence he feels the moral obligation to overrule BMs too. Damn.

Okay, and now to the juicy goodness. While I listened to the court hearing today, this judge was essentially, pissed. Like, more than pissed. He told both DH and BM that if he heard of either of them even slightly thinking about changing or differing from the order that he put in place that he will overturn the suspended days of the original sentence, make them serve the extra 8 days in jail, and also add ANOTHER 10 days to that 8 for each and all act of contempt. He made that INCREDIBLY clear. Like. The prettiest swarovski you've ever seen.

So. We picks the skids up today. First thing SD6 says when she gets in the car is "well, "our current school" has a lot of nice things about it. and nice kids" Kind of threw me for a loop (remember, now that we are LISTED as the primary and residential parents, we can now enroll them in the school that is in our zone. An elementary in our neighborhood, like...i think 6 houses up from us in the subdivision.) DH gets in the car, and it suddenly clicks. I try to shake the thought off for a minute. DH asks the kids if they had a good day. I casually, and very conversationally ask if they saw their mom today. They both answer, in unison, "Yes, she came for lunch", and then they realized what they had just done.

I KNEW nearly as soon as I heard the words out of SDs mouth. BM had been there talking shit to the skids. Filling their heads with HER bs. And even though we picked them up last night as to avoid this, the stupid bitch not only does it, goes to freaking school and does it!!

Oh but wait, it gets better. We essentially after basically pulling it out of them (after they realized what they had "done" they were terrified to speak) but we found out from SS7 that BM came to lunch, told him "what happened" which according to him she said that the judge said that they can only see each other 4 days a month because she wouldn't give him his pill. She then told him, but I told your dad I would give you your pill. Apparently, and this is why he's my favorite. SS7 then asked from some sort of proof because (and I'm quoting him here) "I thought she might be lying about it". The dumb bitch then pulls out her phone and shows him the ONE text message that she sent DH a week ago saying "If you would only give me his medication like I asked this would all be over with". No reply. No other sent messages. Nothing. (The GAL nailed her ass for that in court too. We have two years of documented proof and she even told the GAL and the judge back in September that she didn't agree to the medication being given. Now suddenly a week before court you change your mind? Bitch, please.) This broke my heart. Apparently she told them all kinds of BS about how she's going to get them a phone and only program her number in to it so they can call her if "they get scared" or "are being buillied". I I sarcastically asked, well couldn't you just tell me or your dad and that would make it much easier for everyone? SS7 replied with "Well your number wont be in the phone", and smiled. I side hugged him and said, well you don't need it because you'll actually be WITH us. Yes, bad bad me. Meh.

Essentially what comes of this is that BM didn't even wait 24 hours before her PASing began. AND she did it technically on DHs parenting time. We have already made the phone call to our lawyer. I am hoping that we can still see her mugshot on the sherrifs website this weekend afterall!!

Sorry, after reading this it all seems so anti climactic. Basically, BMs still a bitch, SS7 at the very least really does "get" it more than I even thought. (oh yes, OT but funny random comment he made to me as we were walking through the mall (we took him to get his hair cut tonight) he said "mom just pretends to be broke so she doesn't have to buy us stuff", I thought that (while true) was a pretty random thing to say. I then said, oh why do you think that? He said "well once I said to her, if you're so poor, how come you can always buy new clothes for you?, and she didn't say anything") Hahahahaha. Yes, my little SS, I think I am raising you to be a normal functioning human. Thank you so much for validating that for me. I really needed a good night with them, and I got it tonight.Anyway, we "won". We have full custody. We are the only ones that can make them any doctors (be it mental or physical health) appointments, we may have to pay child support ( I will update on that I'm sure...ugh), she is devastated, and yet continued to mind fuck these poor children. I said to SS7, do you remember last night when we sat you down and we talked last night about the changes and we told you that you didn't have to worry about being put in the middle anymore, or having to choose because there was nothing else to choose or fight over because it was all done? He said yes. I then said, did your mom make you feel like you had to choose today? He immediately said yes. I started to tear up and his dad and I both apologized to him for that happening. What else can you even do at this point??

I say we burn the bitch at the stake!!!