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Anyone else TIRED of living in fear of BM?

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Ugh, this just kills me.

She lives hundreds of miles away, DH and she literally NEVER speak, and yet somehow this woman is a huge negative presence in our marriage.

All she has to do is not return a phone call for the night (phone visitation with SS7) and DH is in a foul mood. Some nights it's hurt. Some nights it's fury.

Freeadvice.com?

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Curious...
Have any of you been over to that site for help/information? I've asked for help in the past and was attacked by the "volunteers" for being an SM and asking for legal advice.

Wondering if any of you experienced something similar?

Am I being petty?

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Hi all...long-time reader, first-time poster. It's been such a comfort to find a community of people dealing with the same issues that I am. In the outside world, we're all told we don't count and we should keep quiet. At least here, we can be heard!

I'm pregnant with my first child--very excited about becoming a mom, but also worried about my financial future with DH. He pays an exorbitant amount of CS (IMO) 1300 a month for one child and we don't make a lot of money!