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BM looking at a house....ON MY STREET

Amazedstepmom's picture

Submitted by Amazedstepmom on Tue, 08/14/2012 - 6:47pm

Title says it all...told my husband if that happens there will be a for sale sign on our house in no time flat...

I don't care if the market is crap. I will NOT live on the same street, same neighborhood wouldn't be so bad "for the kids sake", however that is waaaayyyy too close for comfort!
Sorry just had to share that nonsense.

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Tue, 08/14/2012 - 6:55pm

I would have to move too!!

Something that made me laugh the other day SS told me that he told BM when we move (we are house shopping... guess BM knows now **EYE ROLL**) that she should move in to OUR house. LMAO, he told her "its WAY better than your house".

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Submitted by StickAFork on Tue, 08/14/2012 - 9:16pm

Would do you think would happen? Do you think she'd try to spy on you all the time? Or watch with jealousy as you have "her" family?
I dunno. I guess I don't party with my neighbors enough to see the problem. Sure would make skid transportation easy!

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Submitted by stepmom22boys on Wed, 08/15/2012 - 7:43am

BM moved into my neighborhood. She does spy on us.all.the.time. If DH can't take steps for any reason, BM will drive steps to our house and show them DH is home. She follows it up with a "your dad is home but just doesn't want you" to the steps. BM expects DH to help her at her house because she is a single mother (mow her lawn, paint her house, fix her car, etc). The list goes on and on. We are actually moving next summer to get away from her.

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Submitted by imjustthemaid on Wed, 08/15/2012 - 6:45am

A few years ago BM moved about a mile away from us. It was a nightmare. Every single time I left the house I would see her somewhere. Then she started stalking us and sitting outside our townhouse waiting for DH to leave for work so she could chase him down like a crazy loon. I insisted we move and I won! We moved to a town that she would never be able to afford to live in. And she can't even live in the surrounding towns because too expensive for her and her section 8 check. And she has not called DH in TWO YEARS!!! It was the best thing we ever did.

(Anytime he goes to that town he runs into her still-thank god we moved)

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Submitted by lac925 on Wed, 08/15/2012 - 11:57pm

I'm sooo glad that our BM is an hour and a half away from our city! Once, she asked FDH if there were any homes for sale in our city, and he told her he didn't know. That would be the absolute WORST thing on earth to happen to us - she'd be over all the time, dropping the kids off whenever she didn't want them (which would be ALL THE TIME!) and spying/stalking and starting up drama with our neighbours. Luckily for us, she LIKES living in low-income housing where all her neighbours hate her Biggrin She could never live up to OUR standards.

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Submitted by iamlosingit on Wed, 03/21/2018 - 9:30am

Our judge told DH that if he ever wanted 50/50 we would literally have to move within a 5 mile radius of BM house because she can't DRIVE.    I laughed....and laughed....I mean what is bm going to do if we do live that close? Walk to our house to get ss and walk back home with him? I highly doubt it.