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SD's visit - update

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SD18 did bring the baby to visit this weekend. She nearly didn't - she called DH Friday night and said she might not be able to come. Her H "only had one day off" and she might have to stay home to be with him. Fortunately, they live with her H's grandmother, and Grandma is probably not an abusive psycho. (Unlike SD's MIL, who is exactly like her abusive asshole son.) Anyway, Grandma brought SD to our house while SD's H was asleep. Grandma then went to do some errands before coming back to pick up SD and bring her home.

SD18 coming over this weekend - in theory

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DH talked to her last night, and she says she's bringing the baby (SGD) over to visit this weekend. We'll see. Her H (I HATE calling him that) has so far refused to let her visit us at all - and refused to let her bring the baby to BM's, although he does allow SD to visit her mom. SD was supposed to come over last weekend actually, but SGD was sick so she didn't come. (Although... like I said, her H has forbidden her to come to our house in the past, so I do sort of wonder if "the baby is sick" was truth or her covering for him.)

50 Shades of Grey

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So I finally broke down and got the damn book. And it is both better and worse than I expected. My overwhelming feeling about it is... "That's IT?"

Really? THAT is what all the fuss was about? I've read romance novels that were MUCH more poorly written, and it's about on par with most, so I don't get that argument. It's a romance novel with some light BDSM as near as I can tell. It's not that titillating. It's moderately interesting as a romance novel (I'm not done with it), but it's not porn or whatever.

I nearly had a heart attack!

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SD24 came over this weekend, which was fine. She and her DH are planning on moving into an apartment with BM and stepdad. (The jawdrop icon just doesn't even do justice to DH's and my reaction to this news. Suffice it to say we believe this is a mistake of biblical proportions for every conceivable reason. I have even said to SD's DH that I am surprised he is agreeing to this. But that's not exactly why I'm blogging.)

It's not even a step thing...

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So yesterday we get a call that BS5 (in Kinder) has been misbehaving on the bus and not listening to the bus monitor. After dinner, DH and I sit down to talk to him. DH points out to him (OUR bio, no step situation with this kid) that "if you get kicked off the bus, Mommy is going to have to take you to school and pick you up."

:jawdrop:

DIY Projects and Fragile Male Egos. AKA DH is Being a Pissy Pants

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We have a kitchen cupboard. I suspect it was originally a coat closet when the house was built, because it's weird. It's about 4 feet deep, but it's over the wood box, so you get one foot of floor, then a "ledge" or shelf that's 3 feet deep. We also had a top shelf that didn't go all the way back, maybe 2 feet deep.

SD18 is married. We found out on FACEBOOK.

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She did it, she married the abusive loser. And since she STILL hasn't called DH to tell him, all I can think is that she's embarrassed that she let herself be pressured into this. (Abusive loser is the one who posted it on FB. SD hasn't said a word about it - to anyone, as near as I can tell.)

*sigh* I've actually blocked her on FB now. (Not unfriended, just blocked.) I can't watch this train wreck any more.

Apparently SD18 is getting married this weekend

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Jesus H Roosevelt Christ am I tired of this shit.

I got a call from SD23 last night, telling me she has "bad news". The short version is the SD18 had yet another fight with her mother, and now is not having an actual wedding. She and her BF are instead getting married at the courthouse this weekend with NONE of SD's family there. (NO idea if his family will be there. Probably, is my guess.) SD23 leaves it to me to tell DH. Wonderful.

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