Lol ok so BM SUCKS at communication. She never tells us anything about SS (such as what school he is going to, who his doctor is, when he has appointments for therapy (that he doesn't need), and so on). All of these things are laid out in the divorce decree as what they HAVE to talk about. BM emails and says "your lack of communication is ridiculous. You don't know anything that goes on because you will not talk to me. There are somethings that have to be discussed IN PERSON and you refuse to meet with me to talk about anything. (Um yeah we do refuse...because we have a NO CONTACT ORDER where it says you can only contact us about the minor child and we can only meet to EXCHANGE HIM) I feel like you are taking things out on me through him and that is not fair to him. You are being less than amicable and I feel mediation is the only way we can talk. I don't want to get lawyers and courts involved but you are giving me no choice as you so clearly will not speak to me."

WTH is this crazy SPAWN of Satan eating for breakfast!?! This witch will email ONLY about 3 things. 1. I want SS during your time for... 2. I need to talk to SS and you are not answering the phone (we were not home) or 3. You owe me money for this or that. Leaving us NO WAY to communicate. We email back on every email. 1. We say "no this is my scheduled time and I would appreciate it if you would stop making plans on my time as you clearly know when it is since it is scheduled visitation per court orders" 2. We don't respond to other than with the generic email of "we were not home you may talk to him on Sunday when you pick him up" 3. Well this is the one where we have to get lengthy and spell out what PROPER VERIFICATION is (even though she works at a medical office so she knows what a medical bill looks like and what a proper receipt looks like). But with things like "you need to work with me on the goals set forth by the therapist for SS" gee if we knew what those were....according to the therapist we don't have goals only you do because he doesn't act like he does with you when with us.
She painted such a horrible picture of us to the therapist that when we went and talked to her she was in SHOCK that BM wouldn't work better with us since we have no problems with SS. I really wish they would do split custody so that we could have documentation that SS is better off with us. That would be GREAT! If he doesn't get to live here...he is going down the path to become a drug using, alcohol abusing, menace to society.