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I can't belive what my dh just told me!!! (tears in my eyes)

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Submitted by Addy2772 on Wed, 09/29/2010 - 7:35pm

Last night i was talking to DH, i been holding back from asking him a question i been wanting to ask him since we started dating. Yesturday i finally got the guts to ask.
"DH if BM never left you, would you still be with her today?"
DH response was,
"Yea she was the one that left, i would have never left her because of the kids, even though we fought and really didn't get along,i would of stuck by her side for the kids."

LOL!! BM just txt me and called me!

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Submitted by Addy2772 on Mon, 09/27/2010 - 9:50pm

BM texted me saying "I dnt apprectate u telling Sd10 about the lunch $ that's none of your business"
so i txt back saying "If you have something to tell me, you can call me i'm not going to waste my time txting."
We just got off the phone. BM told me "Why did you tell my daughter that her dad shouldn't give her money" I said, "All i told Sd was that if she was not going to take the 5$ her dad was handing her than he shouldn't give her none that day."

Ugh! Why do you call my MIL to get away with it?

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Submitted by Addy2772 on Mon, 09/27/2010 - 8:53pm

So the annoying BM called my MIL to say she is on her way to pick up the clothes Skids came to my house with on Sunday. My MIL calls me to let me now that BM is on her way for the clothes, so i txted BM saying if i don't get the clothes Dh & i bought back she will be reciving nada! No txt back from her.

My skids with bm for little cousin's birthday party.

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Submitted by Addy2772 on Sat, 09/25/2010 - 9:27pm

Ok so this weekend was my Dh's weekend and we agreed in letting my Skids go with their Bm today for Skids cousin's b-day party (Bm's side). So Bm picks them up at 12:00pm, by one Bm is calling to say that she is dropping SS6 off because he didn't want to go, my Dh and i wait and never get a call back or SS walk through our door, so i called Bm and she says he is going to the party after all. }:)
Thanks for calling to let us know B*t&h! I hated the fact of letting my Skids go but they really wanted to go for their cousin's party, so i didn't stop them from going.

I did some thinking...

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Submitted by Addy2772 on Wed, 08/04/2010 - 5:20am

After reading some of your storys, i might think i have it easy. We share 50/50 with BM which is physical and legal custody.We rotate weekends and have them every other weekdays they go home with BM on our days of the week. BM doesn't call on our weekends with my Skids. Maybe just once and we use the house phone for BM to call my skids, if wheir not home she texts my cell phone we don't talk over text only. MY RULE Smile (BM doesn't have my H's cell number).

Morning DRAMA!!

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Submitted by Addy2772 on Tue, 08/03/2010 - 7:50pm

So this morning Bm did another of her drop offs but this time i called police. BM was shock to find police looking for her at work. BM had nobody to watch the kids so police called me and my DH to let us know that they made a police report stating that BM has to sign a paper everytime she wants us to take care of kids on her days. GOod thing because now where taking BM back to court for full custiody, with police reports and the papers with her singature stating she can't take care of her kids on her days and has to rely on us.

What should i do?!!

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Submitted by Addy2772 on Mon, 08/02/2010 - 9:38pm

Bm drops skids off before she goes to work everyday when we have them every other day. My husband just says i don't mind their my kids, yeah easy for him to say beacuse he works i have to babysit while bm has no worries of getting a babysitter just drops them off as she pleases. what should i do?

i love my step kids, but hate their annoying mother.

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Submitted by Addy2772 on Mon, 08/02/2010 - 8:55pm

Sad the bm does whatever she pleases, doesn't follow court order, calls the house alot knowing that my husband's mother will answer and always gives him the phone (my mother in law loves the bm and hates me). Bm is friends with my husbands sister, my sd10 always comes to tell me what has been said about me when sister in law and bm are together, learned how to ignore and keep my cool.