BB always puts down DH and keeps saying that her now DH walks on water. (he seems ok - has done and said some weird things in the past to the kids, but who hasn't).

I, on the other hand cannot be compared to her DH as a stepparent. Mind you I am nothing but nice - it's just her jealousy talking.

Fast forward to Sunday, DH picked up the Skids at 9:00 a.m. for father's day and asked them if they wished their SF "Happy Father's day". "heck no" was the answer from them. DH told them that it wasn't nice and they shouldn't forget to do it in the evening after they were dropped off.

Again, they said they were not going to do it after what their SF did the day before, which was YSS's birthday. Apparently, they had a family party at home with BB's parents and SF left the house. (he was later seen at the movie theater by a SS's friend). When asked their mother what was going on, she apparently didn't want to talk about it. Had I done what the SF did, BB would have called and raised hell. Anyways.
Yesterday, DH was dropping them off at BB's at 9:00 p.m. after his visitation and OSS tells YSS - how much you want to bet mom is not home? DH asked if their mom was working late hours. Apparently that isn't the case - she is just going out with her friends every night. This woman has two other boys with her DH 6 and 4 years old and also was the one that had an affair and ended her marriage with my DH....

I hope things get better for the sake of her younger kids....