well , the police came last night for a statement , they are trying to gather evidence about the young man, having sex with a minor.... dosent matter if she consented or not , he was an adult.
They wanted a statement from us , we said no.
Not that we are defending the fellow its just that after everything we have seen and heard, what she has done and still doing we feel she has to take some of the blame as well. We know its all due to the upbringing and the way the bm raised her and what she use to see.
Its a very sad messy thing that has happened. She told hubby that she wanted nothing to do with him, so thats it then , we are having nothing to with this!
It's terrible that young girls can do this (yes the guy is at fault) but if the girl is eager and still keeps chasing them and sending all the signals , then months later press charges or such... its not right...
what angers us is that the 3rd party new of all this and let him into there home, but a few weeks ago turned a 360 and started abusing him and turned around and got sd to make a statement.
But that means nothing that they allowed them to date! Go figure!