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As I had said in my previous blog, I found the weirdo couple that little idiot is living with on social media. Well the cigar-smoking, Havana-hat wearing old man may already be fed up with living with her (and she's only been there a few weeks). He made a complaining post asking how much he should be expected to sacrifice to help others who are in need. Hmmm I wonder who he is referring to?... and this was followed by agreement from the man's wife that they need to decide what to do "very quickly". Not good if in fact he's talking about her. 

Little Idiot latest move

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Little Idiot moved out of her apartment apparently. If you recall last summer Goofy left her high and dry holding the full rent payment when he moved out of apartment 1 on her. She them over into apartment 2 last December with one of her (female) friends. They had a 1 year lease which would have been up this December. Now she's moved out of that apartment (leaving the other girl high and dry?). I am 99.9999% sure LI was struggling/unable to make her half of the rent payments.

The pit in my stomach is back early this year - Rant

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Well last night Little Idiot texted DH "Do you guys want me coming up for Christmas this year?" (Her usual reach-out at Christmas time). When DH told me, my stomach immediately dropped. Usually I at least get to enjoy Halloween before she reaches out and the dread of her visit sets in. DH answers "Of course we do! (Ugh speak for yourself!) Let me know the dates so we can buy the tickets (for your 24-year-old-never going-to-buy-your-own-adult self)

Marked safe

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Little Idiot marked herself safe from Milton. Even though she wasn't anywhere near the tornadoes or hurricane damage. Maybe they got some localized street flooding. 

Knowing her she probably was all upset she didn't get a ton of people messaging her saying "OMG ARE YOU OK?!?!?!" so she had to go fishing for it on social media. (Not many relatives commented.. a few did)

DH didn't even reach out. At first I was a little shocked but then I thought well he watched the news closely though and he obviously must have determined there was nothing going on in her area. 

Don’t YOU care?

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With the next hurricane set to pass right over Little Idiot, DH has been (moderately) worried about her welfare. He's not at panic level... she is on the opposite side of the state as to where it will make landfall... but none the less, he's concerned. Me? I'm concerned too. I'm concerned for the people and animals of FL anytime they get hit with a storm. I just am not concerned for Little Idiot. Honestly a hurricane could wash her away and it would just be one less stress in my life. I feel awful for feeling that way but again, I do. My heart goes out to everyone else however. 

Warning: parents who are enablers - The consequences are playing out in real time over here

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I came across this article I thought would be interesting to many of you who are dealing with enabling parents. I linked it at the bottom but here are the highlights (with how it is playing out page by page in my life).

What is an enabling parent?

How do I explain it? The Christmas invasion

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Little Idiot (SD24.5) was fired from her bartending job. I don't know how. From everything I heard, the manager there was permanently checked out and didn't gaf what went on... yet somehow she managed to lose that job. I don't know what went down but my guess was her laziness and unreliability finally got to him. 

On social media, LI has been running around with this woman (her new bff). I can't even say girl anymore. They are both adult women and this newest friend looks to be just as trashy as all her other friends have been. She's also 30.

iPhone drama

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It's time to upgrade our phones... we get free upgrades through TMobile every year assuming the trade in is in good working order. Problem is Little Idiot told us her phone was cracked.... which might make it ineligible for trade in. Last time this happened we ended up paying a couple hundred extra on our first bill because she cracked her last phone. They still accepted it though but this time it is worse. The phone before that was also cracked but it was a small crack on the edge they didn't catch so... no extra charge that time.