ive read some of these entrys and i think its HORRIABLE what some of these step moms are saying!! If you knew they man had a kid b4 u married him then hwy did you marry him in the first place?! when u married him you "married" his kids to. you took the place of her/his mom. Kids are a blessing from God no matter if they are a perfect little angel or a little deman child! its stupid for a step parent to say they want THEIR HUSBANDS KIDS to leave.