Right now, I am not sure what's the next steps to take in my relationship. I am in a long-distance relationship with a gentleman that has 4 kids (he gets his children every weekend). Let's get to the drama...just this past weekend, there was an event that required my b/f and his kids to be in a wedding . Being the woman I am, I wanted to make sure my man and his children's appearance were spotless. Saturday morning, we ran around town and picked up new shoes and socks for their suits.