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How would you feel? Spouse spying

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Submitted by Daisymazy2 on Tue, 03/23/2021 - 8:09pm

A friend of mine found out recently that her DH has been spying on her phone and computer.  She hasn't been cheating or giving him any reason to spy. I am sure she isn't cheating. We tell each other EVERYTHING.   I will not go into to many details of how she found out about it but it p@ssed her off.  He was reading text and social media messages and spying on her online activities.  She didn't have her computer locked or her phone locked.   She had it lying around and he could have looked at either one at any time he wanted without her saying anything.

DH getting on my nerves

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Submitted by Daisymazy2 on Tue, 02/23/2021 - 6:27pm

DH couldn't talk to me while we were home alone or in the car.  He caught me off guard at a restaurant last week and really pi55ed me off.  He started complaining that I do too much for BS and that he needs to move out.  He started talking about SD, age 18, informing him that BM will be kicking  her out of her house in May. 

College Life is over for SD

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Submitted by Daisymazy2 on Mon, 12/14/2020 - 6:42am

The first semester has been over for a while but I just found out that she isn't going back to college.  Each time DH would see SD since the semester ended, he would come back with a little more information and I was finally able to put all the pieces together. I am not sure if SD wasn't telling him the entire story or if he was still in delusion land thinking SD was going to actually graduate from college.  He still tells everyone she is still in college and she isn't.  

Kids in college now

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Submitted by Daisymazy2 on Wed, 09/16/2020 - 2:10pm

Whatever happened to enjoying your freedom and spending as much time away from mom and dad as possible???  Hanging out with friends on the weekends?

SD, age 18,  she is in college literally 10 miles from my house. She doesn't have a driver's license so she doesn't have a car.  She never cared to get her driver's license.  The college is out of the middle of nowhere close to a VERY small town so there isn't any public transporation.  Walking the 3 or 4 miles into town just wouldn't do for SD.  She has to call DAAAADDDDYYY almost every weekend to take her out so she isn't bored.  

BM and DH must be SOOOOO proud

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Submitted by Daisymazy2 on Mon, 09/07/2020 - 2:36pm

Dh and I ran into SD, age 18,  over the weekend.  She told DH that she wasn't taking her antibodics for her STDs anymore because they didn't taste good.  She has an appointment with the dr this week.  The STDs have worked their way into her fallopian tubes.  It has been a few weeks and they haven't cleared up yet.  The longer it takes to clear up the less likely she could become pregnant. Of course, that would be a blessing in disguise especially right now.

A little Update College life

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Submitted by Daisymazy2 on Mon, 08/31/2020 - 12:30pm

A few weeks ago, SD call DH yelling and screaming.  He rushed to BM's house because SD wasn't at college. Before he left,  He told me that she was going to get kicked out of college and he needed to find out why.  He couldn't talk to her on the phone because she yells and screams so much.  I think she does that to get his attention so he will RUSH to her.   WELL... she isn't kicked out YET.

Shaking my head...

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Submitted by Daisymazy2 on Tue, 08/04/2020 - 2:06pm

SD, age 18, is going to college this week.  DH took SD out to eat and to spend the day with her on Sunday.  He asked if I wanted to go and I passed.  DH says that SD wants to see me which I find VERY AMUSING.  I am not sure if he says that because he is still hopeful about a BIG,HAPPY, and BLISSFUL family or if SD says it to try to worm her way into moving in with us. She isn't moving in my house.

DH wanted to take her out because SD told him it would be awhile before she sees him again since she is going away to college.  AWAY...she is going to be 10 ( TEN)  miles away.  

Here we go again

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Submitted by Daisymazy2 on Fri, 07/31/2020 - 11:18am

DH received a message from SD (age 18) last night.  She stated that she is receiving death threats  by multiple guys on social media.  I only engaged to ask if she reported it.   She said that she did.  I  disengaged from the conversation. I am sure  there is more to the story than someone just picking her out of millions of people to send her death threats.  

Child support has finally ENDED

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Submitted by Daisymazy2 on Mon, 07/13/2020 - 5:47pm

SD, age 17, graduated at the end of May.  It took an extra month to finally get child support stopped.  Child support sent back his money for the month of June.

BM hasn't said a word.  I am not sure if she is aware that it  has stopped yet.  She is notorious for not checking the balance on her card.  She gets child support automatically placed on a debit card. She just assumes money is there until the card doesn't work anymore. She may even accuse SD of stealing the money before she realizes she just isn't getting any more.   I am just waiting for her to go "off".

Karma is biting her in the butt

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Submitted by Daisymazy2 on Tue, 06/30/2020 - 7:44pm

BM's daughter (I will call her Sue) (not Dh's child even though she calls DH Dad) she has a 6 year old boy from a previous relationship.  For the first 5 years of his life the child rarely got to see his dad because Sue was just being a b!tch about visitation. The court order at that time said that visitation was "agreed upon by both parents" and of course, she would always tell him, no.  If she had plans and needed a babysitter, she would agree. If he wanted the child for a grandparents birthday party or father's day...the answer was usually NO.

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