Sd, age 15, has been in a group home for a few weeks now.  The group home is a locked facility.  She has to earn privledges . She was sent by BM because she stole over $2,500 from BM's credit card.  This isn't the first time that she stole from BM.  SD's behavior issues include just some of the following.  Claiming to be raped by a classmate (long story), constantly fighting at school, bullying classmates, lying, cursing BM, BM's parents, siblings, teachers, and the principal, and sending naked pictures on the internet, I could go on and on.

BM went on her yearly cruise.  She didn't have anyone available locally to watch SD, age 15, while she was gone due to SD's bad behavior.  I work from home and she wasn't staying here with me and DH has to work.

BM has asked for DH to watch SD during Spring Break for a week while she goes on a cruise. BM has been going on these cruises for Spring Break for years. She also takes a trip out of the country once a year with her sister. DH will more than likely be working during that time and isn't going to be home most of the day. I work from home, so I will be here with my BS. I have said, "Nope, Not happening."

Dh found out earlier this month that his company will close and he will lose his job in March. In October, his company lost a major client and I told Dh that he needed to look for a job. Of course, this statement fell on deaf ears.

His company is offering some employees a job across(over 1000 miles away) the US in a major metropolitan. DH wants to move. I am shocked but in my opinion the move just doesn't make sense financially.