cerisepluot's Blog

How to use my blog

I know enough to know that when there is some sort of conflict (especially in a divorce that is continuously high-conflict) it is important to document, document, document. So, this is what I cam going to use this space for. The little and not-so-little things that BM is doing on a continual basis in her PAS campaign.

Squirm

BM is, I can tell, squirming. I would have more compassion for her (because she is clearly unwell, for whatever reason) if she wasn't such a liar, and arrogant to boot. She is upping the ante, sending email threads to people who have nothing to do with the drama she creates, and it is almost sad. If she came to us and said, I am sorry, I am wrong - well, then, we'd have something to work with. But, instead, she lies, manipulates and twists, all in a web of what is becoming more and more obvious, a campaign of PAS. Well, go for it.

Rise

I am trying to tell myself that the best way to be is to be the best me. That means not lowering myself to BM's level. Not responding to her. Being clear with all of our kids about what is right and what is wrong. I said today to SS14 that it is wrong that his mother encourages secrecy and lies. That I knew he was lying. And that I was sorry that he felt that he had to do that, but, that anytime he wanted to have open, honest conversation that is respectful, I am there to listen.

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