So called because of the b*tch BM who will be dictating them. I asked DH today when he was going to figure out which two weeks the boys would be staying. Keep in mind that there are only 3 available weeks left (unless he screws me over but more on that). He didn't really know. So I inquired in an offhand, totally disingenuous voice if he were planning on calling tonight perhaps. He "hadn't thought about it." Oh my word, partners in 12 stepping our way into the nuthouse, whatever is a mother to do? I dropped it, that's what.