This is my first time doing this. but I need advice. I have been in a live in relationship with my fiance 4 years. We each have 3 children and for the most part, I feel like we can work out any disagreements. Five of the children live with us. The oldest has chosen to live with his ex. Thus excluding herself from the household. Over the past 5 years the level of disrespect toward me is horrible. I am ignored at every family gathering, she is rude to my family ( sisters, nieces. etc) This past weekend on a family trip to San Francisco it was taken to another level.