Sorry to blog-hog, but if anyone could offer advice on this it'd be appreciated. (o/t)
I had a friend who had a little girl. She lost the little girl to CPS and little girl was adopted by her foster parents.
I loved that little girl like my own and took care of her a lot. Spent most of my paychecks buying her clothes and toys and food and putting gas in her BM's car. I never got to say goodbye to her.
If I get a hold of the local CPS office, is there anyway they can send a letter to her adoptive parents giving them my contact information and letting them know that I'd love to see the little girl and if they need anything I'd be happy to help them as much as I can? I'm not friends with her mother anymore (I told her I couldn't be friends with her if she continued making poor decisions... she did. She lost her daughter as a result. I wrote her off as an idiot.) so they wouldn't have to worry about her coming into their lives.
I was pregnant with BD2 when CPS took her. I can remember she was soooo excited at the thought of me having a baby. I took her to all my ultrasounds and had a bed set up in BD2's nursery for her. She never got to even see it 
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Yes. That's why I was
Yes. That's why I was wondering if CPS would be able to pass along a letter with my contact information. No one knows where she is.
DH and I miss her very very much. She was the first baby to ever call us Mommy and Daddy (she was around that often. We discouraged it, but she was pretty insistent, even at 1)
Come on, let this kid have a
Come on, let this kid have a new life and let those horrible sleeping dogs lie. This isn't about this kid.... according to the post she was about one year old. She likely doesn't remember you. Even if she did, you are dredging up a horrible past. All you are doing is ripping scabs off of old wounds because somehow you think it will make YOU feel better.