Read the first half here: http://www.steptalk.org/node/166187 or you'll be very confused.

A couple corrections for dear GBM

- It is a true statement that you are a "part time" Daddy (a choice you made, may I remind you)
ACTUALLY he wanted to be a full time daddy, but your daughter went and left him on Thanksgiving because he went to see his family. Your daughter is a part time mother, I'm guessing, since she had SD in daycare since she was 6 months old yet only worked for... 4 months? Maybe less, I wasn't really paying attention.
- I do pick up more than my share of the grandma slack where "you" lack being in the picture on a daily basis, both emotionally and financially for both SD & BM
DH isn't supposed to be there at all for BM... his only responsibility is to his daughter who he was more than happy to support financially until the courts cancelled his child support.
- BM is not a single parent in the circumstance that there are 2 adults in this house just like your home
Um... yeah... sure... she's still a parent who is single. Unless those tax forms are wrong and you guys got married in which case... ew.
- I provide health, dental, vision, and life insurance for SD
SINCE WHEN?! SD was on our insurance when we lived in TN (I know, it was $400 we couldn't afford coming out of DH's check every month ON TOP of child support) and as far as we have been informed, she is on Medicaid, as is BM.
- You have not paid any current child support for her in almost a year which allowed you to pay of the arrearages you incurred because you didn't pay current back then
Good Lord... she really is misinformed. DH is 100% up to date with his child support because the courts ruled he didn't have to pay it. Before that, he was in arrears because of our move to MI, and those had been paid off in March. Child support stopped in May... 5 months ago. much less than a year.
- and yet - no carseat for her, you use ours which I provide to keep her safe
We have one. We showed it to BM back in April and she said it wasn't good enough and that we had to use yours. We'll bring it to the next pick up.
- I meet you half 1/2 way for visits so you can keep your costs down for fuel in your car
God, every sentence another lie. We pick SD up at your house and drop her off at your mother's, where you say you have to be anyway because that is where you do your laundry.
- I haven't even seen birthday gifts "From you" for her last 2 birthdays
That's because we have kept them and she has used them at our house.
- this pamphlet is not only hypocritical but is a slap in the face for me personally
That's nice... did you read it? It has nothing to do with the father supporting the mother. It's to do with being single (not married) and a parent. How is that hypocritical?
- you don't even take five minutes of your time (Wednesdays) to let us know if you are taking SD at our agreed upon time
Um, so it's an agreed upon time. Which means that, unless you hear otherwise, it's already agreed upon. Why does DH have to call you?
- If the church put this in SD's bag and not you then they have overstepped their boundaries. If it was not done by the church and if it was done by you our your wife then I have to say "step back" and think before you act in this manner again.
Ha. Ha ha. So let me get this straight, you guys actually KNOW what boundaries are? So... things like doors... to my house... my bedroom? Those are boundaries. I vividly remember waking up to BM standing next to my bed. Guess boundaries only exist for you guys.
- I am getting really tired of extending all my hospitality toward you to continually be insulted and having it rubbed in BM's face by you and [ME] that BM is a single parent
Wait... I thought she wasn't a single parent?! I'm confused... And how do we rub it in? By wearing our wedding rings? By holding hands? By using our pet names for each other? God... you would think we were married or something!
- You created SD 1ST and I don't feel that our Lord & Savior appreciates that you put her last in your priority list
That's... interesting. Let's look at DH's priority list: God ("Have no others before Me"), Me (his wife), BD2 and NBD (the two children who live in his home), N (The child who is here half the time), SD (Who is here for 5 or 6 hours a WEEK)... Yeah, that list makes no sense at all...
- your made her a single parent 1ST
Actually, again, your daughter did that. She left DH on Thanksgiving, knowing full well she was pregnant and unable to support herself.
- If you have concerns regarding the way SD is being raised, any objections at all I recognize you as her father and you are welcome to "voice" [underlined] them to me if you are uncomfortable talking with BM.
We HAVE. You got pissed because we were criticizing you.
- Be prepared. I am going to the FOC to get child support reinstated as this pamphlet have has reminded me that I have been doing the "single parent" thing and you should be more involved in her care.
Oh, I'm so scared. You apparently forget they are going to go after SD's parentS for child support. I guess your precious daughter will have to go get a job instead of sitting on her ass claiming to be a poor struggling single stay at home mom.

I don't swear often but:
Bitch.