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So when SD12 was here on the weekend she was sick (as usual). DH sent her to bed around 8pm but before she went to her bedroom she asked for a bowl of water. I was thinking, is she really that thirsty? LOL. DH said that she wasn't taking a bowl of water to her room because of the flooring and spilt water would ruin it. He asked why she wanted to do that and SD said that at BMs house if they are sick she fills a bowl of water and puts it in the middle of the room as it "cleans the air". WTF??

I hope that SD doesn't come tomorrow.

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She hasn't been here in a while but is supposed to come this weekend. She did say that she never wanted to come here again (yeah!!) and I'm hoping that she doesn't.
I am so hopeful that I hired a babysiter (for our 2 year old) for Saturday so DH and I can go on a day trip, just the 2 of us. If SD comes then I'll have to cancel. Wish me luck, I really don't need the stress and bs that comes with her visits.

I have a confession to make...

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Here's a quick summary..
My SD(12) has been peeing in her pants for 6 years now. She has been to a few different doctors and there is nothing physically wrong with her. BM says that I "make" her do it. DH and I have tried everything but she keeps doing it. I have used up every bit of patience with her, she is determined to drive me crazy.
DH and I have asked her a million times to please rinse out her pants and panties and to not just throw them on her bedroom floor. They stink and I would have to wash them separate from everyone else's (yes, it really is that stinky!)

Oh, the drama... and guilty parenting by DH

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SD came again this weekend, it was her birthday on Friday and she wanted her present, of course!
It was DH's friends birthday yesterday, they grew up together and this friend has helped us out a great deal when we were looking at houses. We haven't seen him lately just due to being busy with work and family.
His wife invited us to come over for a "party". Where we live that usually involves a bon-fire and lots of alcohol. We thought we should at least go for a short time and took all 4 kids with us.

I wondered what the drama would be about this weekend...

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I didn't have to wait too long. Last night DH told SD11 that we were going out this morning at 10am. There is a festival in town and he wanted to go to it. It was also a beautiful sunny day and we did not want to waste it sitting around the house.
DH can't get downstairs to the kids rooms as he has a wheelchair, I do not get involved in waking up SD as she would become irrate and call her mother, it's better if I just stay out of it.

OMG, I will not do anything else for SD!

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I don't know how many of you remember that I posted about making SD (11) a dress for her end of year dance. Well, it turned out awesome, everyone loved it, SD even thanked me 3 times.
I worked extra hard on it as I knew BM would be inspecting it and I made sure every seam and stich was perfect. I spent twice as long as I did on my own and my daughters dresses.
She did not come this weekend as BM is mad about the whole counselling thing (last blog). DH did call her and ask how the dance was and SD said it was great and everyone loved the dress I made her.

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