Well finding this site has changed my life! Today I have been able to share views with many others and it really helps to talk .. I didn't agree with all of the comments but that's great -- mix of opinions is always good and also it made me re-evaluate. I am not anyone's doormat. I will stand up for my self as I hate that shrinking-violet feeling that my husbands family create..... I will be stronger!!

It's also good to know I am not a jealous psycho-bitch!! I am entitled to feel the way I do and I do not need to be so compliant when my gut tells me the situation is wrong.