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He's got someone new.

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I haven't been on this site for long, and I haven't really made connections with any of you here, but I just needed to tell someone about this and Steptalk seemed like the best choice. When I posted about my exSO, I got support and great advice, so... I don't really have anyone else to talk about this, tbh.

My ex has a new girlfriend. I saw him and SDs out with her. She seems to bow down to SDs wishes- ex was walking between the SDs, the girl was pushed to the side... Didn't seem to be bothered by it. She even ran off to buy popcorn for them, but nothing for her and ex.

We broke up

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So we "talked", though that talk was pretty much a fight...And we broke up.
I'm sad, of course,but I'm also kind of happy because I don't have to deal with all the crap anymore. Heh..
So,yeah, that'd be it.
I can't go into detail, it's uncomfortable and I don't want to think about this anymore, it's done.

Worst mood he's been in..

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So he's not talking to me, not answering his phone when it rings, not reading a book and not watching TV.
Basically he's not doing anything.
And he said that we're gonna talk tomorrow about all this, now he can't.

I'm worried, I'm close to crying,and I have no idea what's he gonna say.
I'm afraid we'll break up. Sad

WORST DAY EVER

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We got up very early, but BF was all happy. He expected a warm, happy holiday with his family. I suppose that's how he remembers christmas from before,and thinks of it that way.
But this? it was everything BUT warm and happy.

So I'll skip the little details and tell you the short story..

too much...

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BF is going to give each sd 100 euros as a holidays gift..
And I think it's too much considering their behaviour towards him, and the way they're acting, but..he's gonna do it.

And he thinks that I don't want them to get that much money because I don't like them.... he doesn't even understand what i'm trying to say Sad

WHAT THE...

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I honestly have no idea what the fu*k should I say

SDs were here today,as the rest of BFs family. They have a tradition to get together at 1st of January which is ok since it is a holiday. BUT...this was terrible.

His family celebrates Christmas at BF's mother's house..And we're going there,of course.
But..so is BM! Yes,thats right. BM!

Do you think this is okay?

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Do you think that it's okay for a 14 year old to come home from a party at half past 3 am, and at the party there was no supervision? Only teens, alone,with anything they wanted? (alcohol,cigarettes, etc.)

The 17 year old came home at around 5 am, is that ok?

I am not saying that it isn't, bcause I really don't know much about that,but.. it doesn't seem right to me. I mean she's 14...
BF was worried but he doesn't have much of a problem with that. What do you think?

They'll be coming 1st january

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So they'll be coming 1st january, to "visit" us since January 1st is a holiday.
Me and BF decided to act kind - not to overdo it but kind,and to show some affection so that they know they haven't separated us, and we'll get a reaction from them I hope.

They said they don't want gifts but BF got them giftcards.
I thought he shouldn't do it but he wanted to, so ok.

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