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I have come to the realization

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Submitted by torturedmommydearest on Tue, 07/22/2008 - 12:55am

that nothing I do for my skids will ever be enough. I love my DH and feel terrible for him when both BM and his kids treat him like poop. I finally realize I have to stop getting stressed about it and live my life. I am a "fixer" and this is something I have tried, but can't fix. I am not buying school clothes, bday or christmas this year. It is all on him and I am not even going to remind him of it b/c I do not care if they get another thing from me. I have exhausted my love, money and energy on these two very spoiled children and enough is enough!

Shocking event over the weekend

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Submitted by torturedmommydearest on Mon, 07/07/2008 - 11:17am

Well last week we had all hell break loose with SD11, this week we had our demon child forget all about how she behaved. For once DH did not forget and she was served a consequence. I was totally shocked! First he had a long talk with her (asked me to be present for that). She told him he had a temper, then I think she realized she did too. He explained the difference was he controlled his. He told her she would have a consequence, then I suggested she help come up with a consequence since she feels no control. She chose 7 days without playing with her friends.

I am so very frustrated and need advice

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Submitted by torturedmommydearest on Fri, 06/27/2008 - 1:27pm

DH and I have been married for over 4 years now. We are still very much in love and happy. He is not so much the frustration. It is his daughters, my SD (2). They are twins and age 11. One of them is usually respectful, obediant and does not cause much trouble AT our home. I am not sure of her innocence away from our home. The other twin is borderline evil. DH and I dated for a year or so before we got married and things were great, even after marriage things were fine. SD hated mom, didn't want to go home, etc. Things with MIL and whole IL family was good.