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Submitted by BaseballMom42 on Wed, 06/25/2014 - 8:39am

Is it me or is this strange? SS17 follows DH around everywhere. I can understand if he was a young kid, but 17? DH goes upstairs, SS17 follows. DH goes downstairs, SS17 follows. I asked DH to go take out the trash and get this….SS17 FOLLOWS! Last night DH went to his Tae Kwondo class, SS17 followed and sat there and watched. I ordered a pizza last night DH went to pick it and SS17 insisted on going with him for the ride. It was raining, DH was telling SS17 just to stay home for 15 minutes while he ran out quickly, but SS17 would not listen he had to go with him!

All I can do is Laugh

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Submitted by BaseballMom42 on Mon, 06/23/2014 - 11:11am

I am finally at the point that SS17 immature actions just make me laugh (and give me some funny stories to share with my co-workers). There is nothing I can do but ignore it and move on, because I learned over the years nothing I say gets through to DH and besides SS17 will just go back to in-laws and flip the whole story around making me like a witch (and they believe it). ANYWAY….here is my latest humorous story.

SS17 Ruined My Anniversary

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Submitted by BaseballMom42 on Tue, 06/17/2014 - 1:53pm

Yesterday was my two year wedding anniversary. Since it was on a Monday and DS12 had a band concert last night we planned to celebrate our anniversary this past weekend. Well we were busy with baseball on Saturday, so I figured we would celebrate on Sunday after Father’s Day celebrations.

Need Advice

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Submitted by BaseballMom42 on Fri, 01/04/2013 - 12:58pm

So I haven't posted in a while since SS15 moved back with his BM 2 states away. Well since he moved ILs have not talked to me. They all blamed me for SS15 moving back and I think DH let them believe that because he didn't want to take the fall (which is a whole different issue). But the decision was up to DH I said I would support him on what he decided, I hold DH it was his son his decision and if he decided to have SS live with us we needed to sit down and make a plan (like finances, rooms situations, school, etc.) So anyway DH sent him back to live with BM and ILs went crazy.

BM is unbelievable

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Submitted by BaseballMom42 on Tue, 08/14/2012 - 9:19am

As I said yesterday SS15 finally went back to live with his mother after being here over two months, and telling us he was going to live with us. DH finally had the guts to say that the best thing for him was to go back to BM house where she has room for him and so he doesn't switch schools again for the thrid time in three years. I think BM wanted SS gone, because she didn't seem to care he wanted to live here, she was just concerned about NOT paying us child suppport. And I told DH that if SS15 lives with us she would have to pay child support just as he has all these years.

Great news (for the most part)

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Submitted by BaseballMom42 on Mon, 08/13/2012 - 8:31am

So, guess what...SS15 is going back to live with his mother two states away today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so happy. My life can get back to normal again. If you read my previous blogs I was trying to get DH to come up with a plan if he wanted SS15 to live with us to make it work. He obviously couldn't come up with anything and talked with BM and decided that it would be best for SS15 to go back and live with BM since she can be home to supervise him and there he has his own room and own space, etc.

Same Fight, Different Day

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Submitted by BaseballMom42 on Fri, 08/10/2012 - 8:01am

DH and I got into a fight last night AGAIN over SS15 living with us (SS15 wasn't there of course, sleeping at ILs). DH tells me he told SS15 he had to go home at the end of summer, but SS15 got mad and called grandparents and ILs are mad at DH, so he tells me "I couldn't even tell them a good reason why he had to go home, I feel guilty now, I don't know what I should do"....REALLY DH???? So does that mean now he is or isn't staying? I think I might seriously move out if he stays, but I said to DH...ok if he is staying, tell me your plan????

Sad News

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Submitted by BaseballMom42 on Thu, 08/09/2012 - 9:04am

I feel really terrible right now because my sister just found out her baby has downs syndrome. She is 12 weeks pregnant and just got the results yesterday. I really want to be there to support her. I never thought I would get to be an aunt because she always said she never wanted children, so I was really happy when I found out she was pregnant. My sister said that she will do anything in her power to provide her child with a great life. And I just want to be there for her as much as I can. The hard thing is that she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York.

Last Night was Heaven

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Submitted by BaseballMom42 on Tue, 08/07/2012 - 12:32pm

DH calls me at work yesterday and tells me he has the night off of work, so happy, I don't have to be alone with SS15. I get home from work, no one is there...five minutes later DH walks in with DS10 after picking him up from soccer camp, but no SS15. I don't say a word. 10 minutes later DH phone rings, it's SS15 telling DH he is staying the night at his uncle's house since they are getting up early to go golfing together. I am doing the happy dance inside my head. I could tell DH seemed more relaxed too without him around, he even asked DS10 and I out to dinner.

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