I have been trying to smooth out my relationship with fss9. He annoys me a lot and our relationship has been touchy lately so when I said I was going to go see a movie instead of going on the boat ride and he asked to go I said yes. We actually had a really good time and loved the movie, Snow White and the Huntsman. On the way home he asked why me and his mom dont get a long. I told him that I respect her because she is his mom, but I dont agree with a lot of thing she does.

So I am trying to figure out if I can deal with what FDH did in the past few weeks or if this wedding needs to be called off. I am trying to get homework done and the bm is supposed to be dropping off the skids soon. Of course they had a game of some sort so it is running into his 4 days a month he has them. That really bugs me but from now on I am just going to remind myself, NOT MY KIDS. If he cared that she was stepping into his tiny amount of time with them then he would do something. It s one thing if they were each interested in ONE sport and they got to do it.

So I am engaged to my fiancee and ever since I met him, my life has been focused on him and his kids. I set up their rooms, bought their clothes, play with them, take them to do fun things and anything else I can do to make them feel at home when they are with us. I have put up with plenty of BS over the years because he would not be responsible or stand up to BM. He has grown up a lot too. So during the years I have been working full time (at one point 3 jobs) and going to school full time.