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Submitted by somewhatclueless on Fri, 10/21/2011 - 2:59pm

Regardless of why or how, the baby is here. The choicee was whether to love or not. Maybe this is why my DH is so fixated on love being a choice. You choose to see the good in someone and choose to love them. It's your freewill choice whether you do or don't. He chose to try. His confidence and trust was broken, but he loved the baby. You thought you loved the mom and you've had your trust shattered, but this innocent child is something different. He chose to try for that baby. They had a second child together, part his choice... actually mostly his choice.

Why there are SKIDS

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Submitted by somewhatclueless on Fri, 10/21/2011 - 2:45pm

History of it all? I guess that would go back to what I have been told. He and her met while working for the same company. They dated and found so much in common. She wanted the same things in life. To be loved and respected. They didn't want to have kids, him because of his religious upbringing and consiquences as a Jehovah's witness for choosing to leave the organized religion. She because of what she'd seen of her siblings and kids. She got the Depo shot for years, he paid for it without question because it was what they both had wanted and agreed on.