Ok, so we're not together anymore. We've talked a LOT these past few days, and I've still gone to his house to hang out. I adore his kids, and his 2yo adores me. he's always climbing on me and hugging me if he's gone even one day without seeing me. it's funny and cute all at the same time. J has also started not spoiling his son as much. he still lets Z sleep with him, but is much more willing to stand up to Z when 2yo acts jealous. I was over there last friday, and J went to take a nap, leaving me up with Z. this was HUGE. he's NEVER done that before.