Hello, I'm new here...I don't know where to start. To give you some background, my skids are actually my husband's nieces that he adopted as babies, since their BM (his sister) fried her brain due to an 18 year crack cocaine habit. She is like a 2nd grader, but I guess the one good thing is that I don't have to deal with an ex. Anyways, at the beginning of our relationship I really admired him for doing that, and it was one of the reasons why I knew he was a good man. I still believe that deep down he is a good man. We've been together nine years, married eight.