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What a jerk!

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Submitted by happy_2bmarried on Fri, 11/11/2011 - 2:05pm

I am so sick of it, When the skids come over all they do is hang out and play video games and make a mess and I am the one who is expected to clean it up. My husband thinks the skids are victims because of all the PA they have to endure. I told my husband we don't make enough money to be disney parents for the skids. I told my husband I wish I could have it as easy as they do, they don't lift a finger by the way neither does my husband! I told him when he gets home he leaves a trail where ever he goes and I am tired of cleaning up after all the kids and skids!

Would like some advice ASAP!!!!

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Submitted by happy_2bmarried on Mon, 10/24/2011 - 9:08am

So on the way home last night with my kids and my skids in the car we bring up how old everyone is getting and how the years are going by so fast. I said to the oldest skid that you will need to make sure to keep in touch in when you go to college...he's only 13 so we have a lot of years until we have to go down that road.The skid argreed and then the youngest skid said well that will be in three years that he will be out of my house. I didn't say anything and told my husband what the youngest skid said.

was a wrong?

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Submitted by happy_2bmarried on Mon, 10/10/2011 - 3:51pm

My husband and I celebrated our Childs 1st birthday along with his oldest kids birthday. We had my family come and His family come for one birthday party. My side doesn't normaly buy gifts for his kids when it is there birthday because we don't invite them do to his kids and my side not being close. I agreed to not getting our 1 yearold a gift and getting his child a gift because my husband said our 1 yearold would never know the difference and his kid being older would be hurt. We are very tight on money and live on a budget!!

Explain this to me????

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Submitted by happy_2bmarried on Fri, 09/30/2011 - 9:15am

One of the skids told me there BM is going to take them on vacation....The skids BM is on Goverment aid and can't afford to buy cloths that fit the kids, but yet she can afford to take them on vacation???? I can't afford to take my family on vacation and my husband and I work full time. How can people be on goverment aid and yet go on lavish vacations?????

needed to vent!

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Submitted by happy_2bmarried on Mon, 08/08/2011 - 1:05pm

I contacted our attorney today and asked what child support covers in our state, He informed me that EVERYTHING my stupid husband is paying for out of pocket is covered for by the child support we pay. We get them a hair cut every month - that's covered, my husband says that if we don't get them a hair cut BM isn't going to spend money on getting them one. Shoes , coats, snow pants and winter boots are all covered. School supplies every year are covered.

I have a question?

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Submitted by happy_2bmarried on Fri, 08/05/2011 - 11:16am

I was going over what was spent last year on the skids not including childsupport. I have three skids and paid school fees for one and 1/2 for another. I also by winter boots every year for all three and winter coats and fall coats and snow pants for all three to wear at each house. BM and us switch every year on who buys school shoes vs who buys school supplies and back packs.