Would just like some advise.......Have been dating boyfriend 4 years and always knew that his family manipulated him but this past summer it was totally out of control. His brother was arrested 4th OUI and he ran to bail him out for thousands of dollars, brother said he would get money in a week it has been four months... his daughter had the same thing arrested and then called when fine was due crying that her license was suspended and did not have money to pay fine...has sister is an alcoholic and always calls for money. He continuously gives money to all of them.