I feel like I have no one to talk too! If I talk to my husband about my issues with my SD it is never her fault but always mine- because "I am the parent." Now I agree that as a parents we are responsible for our actions. But what about her actions? He is completely oblivious to a vast majority of her attitude towards me. It doesn't help that her BM is a total psycho!!! Who has set out to destroy any relationship I have with her daughter. I have heard her tell my SD that she's the mom and not I. Even though she turns around and says that they are BFFs.