I have a SS that is wonderful. Lately my DH and I have asked for more time with him. My DH felt since he was not working this summer they could do a week on and a week off. BM said no way basically that it was too hard for him. My DH went to her and asked her to sit with someone (a lawyer a friend someone) that would help come up with a fair schedule. She turned around and said, "I don't like sending him down that way because he doesn't get a bath". She is partially correct. When we have him only one night he does not usually get one. He swims quite a bit though.