I have 3 step children. Ages; 21, 18 & 15.

The 21 had his first job at 16, got straight A's, and bought his own car (we matched what $$ he put in).

The 18 is now a senior in high school, struggles to pass and admits that he cheats when he can, doesn't have a job or a car.  He father (my husband) & his BM have not forced him to get a job.

So, I am the only one who sees anything wrong with this. My husband and I have gotten into so many arguments over it....

HELP!!!!!