I have two step kids and have been involved in their lives for 6 years now. Their bio mom has chosen drugs and men multiple times over them. I have been the consistent mom for two years now and all of a sudden the courts allow one visit a week and everything changes because she comes around with an "I'm sorry, I understand" it's like everything I have done for the past two years doesn't even matter any more, like I don't matter anymore.

I feel bad and I dont...but I cannot stand my step kids. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years now. However, we have history that stems back 13 years (before children). He has FIVE kids by 2 women. I have one child from a previous relationship. His children are b/11, b/9, b/9, g/8, and g/5. My daughter is 9. One of his 9 year old sons, I have never met. He doesnt come on weekends or visitisit at all. Truthfully I'm glad, I have no real desire to meet him. As for the other four, they have the same mother.