Recently I've been having vivid dreams about an ex lover. I've known him since I was 15. I've been with my DH for the past six years. Before I was with my DH I was with the ex on and off for four years. We weren't really official. When I had gotten with my DH all sexual contact was completely cut with the ex, but we'd still talk from time to time. Once my husband and I got married I cut off all contact.