So I found out what the new "modification" request. BM is wanting to terminate DH's parenting time all together except for allowing only 2 weeks consecutive in the summer. Can you believe this??!! We just agreed in Feb. of this year and now the monster is wanting to take back what she has already agreed to!! She told DH tonght that if he comes into town he will be wasting his time because they will be busy and she doesn't know if SD will get a chance to see DH even though the current papers in force say that she must allow visitation in the event that DH comes into town with proper notice and DH told her of this on the 26th of October....proper notice and all.

Unbelievable!!! Just shocking!!! Why would an attorney agree to file such an ignorant motion that a judge can't possibly be okay with? Two weeks in a year...that is it??? Just crazy!!

Can you get a continuance pro se? Anyone know? The hearing is for mid December. How convienient!! Just in time to make us broke for Christmas! She also had specially put in there how he has two step children and then named DH and I's bio son with birth month and year and all. UMMMM DH ADOPTED the other two over a year ago and she is full aware of this. I think it is to try to raise child support since she wants to exclude his adopted children in the multiple child calculation that is currently in place.

No, as a matter of fact...if she wants to play with child support I'll let her. Per the state guidelines you can get a credit in child support for long distance parenting expenses which we now have since moving away and you can also get a credit for continual months of time like we have according to ths plan.

We are ready to go for change in custody. We can prove that while SD was with us we encouraged her communication with her mother and she has done nothing but deny and has said many time in emails and recorded calls that she will not "make" SD return any calls and that SD will call "when she wants to talk". And BM hasn't informed DH of anything going on in regards to SD either way of school, medically, emotionally, or outside activities etc.

When SD was here this past summer BM was emailed all of important things regarding SD and we have them to prove it!!

Do you think it will look tit for tat to counter with a custody change?