My ds has a sports award thing coming up last year I couldn't go so exh and dd went. Rhis year I can go, my SO has been involved helping at practice, we're at all games, heck last game one of my son's teammates had a medical emergency (seized and passed out hitting his head on the concrete from that stupid passout/choking game and altered consciousness I being a newly licensed emt(doing my internship still) jumped right in and handled it then helped the medics. So exhs gf ran to the store and bought a bunch of treats and drinks for the team. So we're all involved and well known.
okay the point is the paper for the awards says immediate family only neither exh or I are remarried I want to go I have no issue going without SO in the same area as exh and SO is okay if thats what happens and Idk if exh will go if his gf can't so who goes? I want my son to at least have both his dad and I there. His gf isvalways hostile and not pleasant when I'm in close proximity but I ignore it and act like an adult even though it hurts and she has no sensebof decency when it comesbto appropriate dress for events which embarasses me for her but eh (she is apparently jealous of me and hates me because I'm the exw) I don't want hostilities but I don't want anyone to feel left out. So what should I do? Can our SO's go to an immediate family only thing?