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I will no longer be a fool

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Submitted by fedupinarkansas on Mon, 05/12/2008 - 5:31pm

Saturday I went to pick step kids up to take them to a party b/c they never do things that normal children do. So there mother pulls up and SD 6 gets out so that she can gets her medicine. Then just as loud she says SD6 take it in the house b/c you know everytime you go down there you lose something. While their grandmother is in the background co signing everything she says. Then she said yeah and I know that she is going to call FH call I don't care he is nobody. What I should've done was made SD6 and SS9 GET OUT of my truck and let her sorry ass take them. She is a piece of shit. She lives with her boyfriend and doesn't even have her kids, and for their grandmother to co-sign really pissed me off. When she was in ICU i took those kids for a whole week without getting a thank you or anything. So i called FH and told him NEVER will i keep those kids again. If they are not with him then they will not be at our house. If you make a fool out of me once shame on you, but if you make a fool out of me twice shame on me. and i refuse to be used by anybody fuck that. That pissed me off. I think that she is really getting shitty b/c my wedding day is the 31st. Her mother even had the nerve to tell future husband that GOD only recognizes his first wife. Sorry but i just needed to vent.

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Submitted by Karma_ on Mon, 05/12/2008 - 6:16pm

So many second/third wives and stepmothers take this kind of crap for so long because they do it for their new husbands. But let face it, our new husbands often abuse our trust that they will back us up by just not being firm enough with the ex and/or the skids because they feel guilty.

We have each put up with the crap and felt the hurt of not being supported by DH, and we have each got to this point where we have said enough is enough I'm not being treatd like this anymore.

Put yourself first for a change. Try to step back and analyse situations rather than reacting with hurt, anger and frustration. It will be less stressful for you.

Also - 1. God does not recognise HATEFUL PEOPLE it has nothing to do with how many times you have been married. Do you really think God would hold it against your husband for making the mistake of marrying a psycho the first time around? And 2. The best revenge is looking wonderful and having a beautiful wedding day. DO NOT let anyone or anything spoil your day. (My hubbys ex insisted on showing up at our wedding to pick up the skids meaning people had to go outside to talk to her, the bitch. I say again let NO ONE ruin your wedding day Smile

}:) Being my husbands third wife does not make me third rate. It just means he is a slow learner }:)